Get Support That Actually Helps Pro Se Litigants

If you're here, you're probably dealing with something that feels impossible. The courts don't get it. The professionals are hit or miss. Friends say, "Just stay calm," and Google's got you spiraling at 3 am.

You need more than advice — you need tools. Strategy. Real support from someone who knows the game and has walked through the same fire.

At Breaking Badass Coaching, every service is built to help you fight smart, protect your kids, and stop feeling so alone in the process. Whether you want to DIY your way through or get deep, personal, tactical support — there’s something here for you.

DIY Templates & Guides: Court-Ready Support at Your Fingertips

Don’t know where to begin? Start here.

Our downloadable templates, email scripts, communication trackers, and documentation guides are trauma-informed, easy to use, and made specifically for high-conflict family court situations.

These aren’t generic printables. These are tools designed by someone who’s lived it — and knows how the system actually works.

Use these tools to:

  • Document incidents with clarity and court-credibility

  • Communicate with your ex (or their lawyer) using B.I.F.F.

  • Track parenting time, threats, violations, and more

  • Organize your evidence without losing your mind

Perfect for:
Parents who need to act fast but don’t have a ton of time or money and want to protect their case with confidence.

Custody Warrior Collective: You Don’t Have to Do This Alone — Find Your People

Let’s be real: this path is lonely. Your friends don’t get it. Facebook groups are a mess. And therapists? Great — if they know what narcissistic abuse and court trauma actually look like (most don’t).

That’s why we created the Custody Warrior Collective Community — a private, off-social platform where you get ongoing support, education, and connection.

    • Weekly live coaching calls + replays

    • Exclusive Q&As, case study breakdowns, and office hours

    • Access to ALL digital resources + new drops monthly

    • A safe, moderated space to ask questions and share wins

    • Real support from people who get it

    • Access to the Family Court Survival Blueprint course

    As a bonus, you’ll gain access to our Family Court Survival course – the tool I wish I had at rock bottom.

    Family court doesn’t come with a manual — but now you can have one.

    This self-paced course walks you through how to document, communicate, and move through court without getting emotionally bulldozed. Whether you're just starting or in the thick of it, this course gives you the strategy, structure, and trauma-informed support to navigate it all.

    • How to write a killer declaration

    • What judges actually care about (and what they don’t)

    • How to document abuse in ways that get taken seriously

    • How to protect your mental health while inside the system

    • The do’s and don’ts of talking to GALs, custody evaluators, and attorneys

    Plus — bonus templates, scripts, checklists, and real-life examples from other survivors of the system.

Perfect for:

People who need a community to back them. No judgment. No fluff. Just real people, real tools, and a space where you don’t have to be “calm” or “perfect” to be heard.

1:1 Strategy Coaching Call: 45 Minutes That Will Change Everything

Sometimes, you just need someone who gets it to look at your situation and say: “Here’s what you do next.”

This is a private, focused, 45-minute call where we get into the real story — not the polished version you’re forced to tell in court. We’ll look at your case, your biggest challenges, and your goals. You’ll walk away with a plan, tools, and clarity.

On this call, we will:

  • Review emails, legal documents, or court filings

  • Craft a plan for responding to conflict or abuse

  • Strategize the next steps in your case

  • Support emotional regulation when you’re in survival mode

You’ll also get a follow-up recap with key takeaways and resources — because your brain’s already carrying enough.

Perfect for:
Pro Se parents who are just getting started and need help figuring out where to begin. 

Not Sure Where to Start?

Totally okay. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re just up against a system that wasn’t built to support people like us.

Let’s figure it out together.

Because you don’t need to be a lawyer to protect your peace.

You just need someone in your corner who knows the game — and has your back.

Choose your path. Every path leads to empowered, protected, badass parenting.